SYNOPSIS (via Goodreads):
“Naomi Grant has built her life around going against the grain. After the sex-positive start-up she cofounded becomes an international sensation, she wants to extend her educational platform to live lecturing. Unfortunately, despite her long list of qualifications, higher ed won’t hire her.
Ethan Cohen has recently received two honors: LA Mag named him one of the city’s hottest bachelors and he became rabbi of his own synagogue. Taking a gamble in an effort to attract more millennials to the faith, the executive board hired Ethan because of his nontraditional background. Unfortunately, his shul is low on both funds and congregants. The board gives him three months to turn things around or else they’ll close the doors of his synagogue for good.
Naomi and Ethan join forces to host a buzzy seminar series on Modern Intimacy, the perfect solution to their problems–until they discover a new one–their growing attraction to each other. They’ve built the syllabus for love’s latest experiment, but neither of them expected they’d be the ones putting it to the test.”
I’ve been anticipating The Intimacy Experiment since I finished The Roommate. The Roommate was one of my favorite books of 2020 and I will recommend it to anyone, so I was really excited to read this follow up. The Intimacy Experiment by Rosie Danan is a companion novel to The Roommate. You don’t need to read it to understand The Intimacy Experiment but you definitely should.
Naomi Grant is our heroine. Introduced to us in The Roommate as Josh’s ex-girlfriend and fellow porn performer, she gets her star turn in this novel. Naomi has a Master’s in Psychology and has been looking to use it in teaching a course on human sexuality and relationships, on top of continuing to run Shameless with Clara. She has hit a roadblock due to her former profession. That’s where Ethan steps in, they meet at an education conference. Ethan is a very attractive, single, and unconventional Rabbi, who is looking to have her teach a course on modern intimacy for his synagogue in hopes of attracting a younger Jewish crowd.
Ethan and Naomi have insane chemistry from the very start of this book. Naomi has some reservations in acting on her attraction because of her past, she doesn’t want that to affect Ethan’s reputation. Ethan is somehow both adorable and hot. He understands Naomi in a way that she really has only experienced once before. Naomi is a fantastic heroine. She has her demons, but she is smart and confident. Her journey through this book is really beautiful. She opens herself back up to things that she blocked off due to her trauma. Some of this is through her relationship with Ethan, and some is through her reconnecting to her Jewish faith. This also allows her to form deeper connections with her friends as well.
I loved that Naomi isn’t tamed by her relationship with Ethan. So while she opens herself up to more intimacy in her relationships, she is still the same Naomi fundamentally. Ethan is a quintessential good guy. He is head over heels for Naomi pretty much immediately and always backs her up. I loved his thoughts on faith and the way they are framed throughout the novel. Their banter is incredible and such a strong part of this book (and of Danan’s writing in general). They felt like a fully fleshed out couple and I loved every minute spent with them. The steamy scenes are A+.
I highly recommend The Intimacy Experiment by Rosie Danan. If you love contemporary romance, then you have to check it out. Rosie Danan writes fully fleshed out characters who are sex-positive. I loved The Roommate and I loved The Intimacy Experiment.